The new dating series “Are You My First?” on Hulu is generating considerable excitement even before its premiere on August 18, 2023. The show, which focuses on individuals who identify as virgins, has already attracted a wave of applicants eager for a potential second season. Co-host Colton Underwood, known for his time on “The Bachelor,” reported a significant influx of messages from potential contestants. “I have never had so many virgins sliding into my DMs,” he stated, expressing optimism about the variety of participants for the next installment.
Underwood, alongside co-host Kaitlyn Bristowe, who gained fame on “The Bachelorette,” aims to offer a unique perspective on dating and virginity. The series follows 21 contestants, aged between 24 and 34, as they navigate their journeys toward intimacy. Bristowe, who faced criticism for openly discussing her own sexual experiences during her season, expressed empathy for the virgins on the show. “It gave me a bit more empathy for people who chose not to have sex because I was like, ‘Well, who am I to judge those people seeing how badly I got judged?’”
The format of “Are You My First?” diverges from traditional dating shows. Contestants approach courtship with a sense of intention, which Bristowe finds refreshing. “This is like a sweeter, softer version,” she noted, highlighting the contrast with more chaotic dating shows. The experience has led to moments of poignant vulnerability, including contestants expressing their hesitance about physical intimacy. One participant, Katya, a 28-year-old theatre artist from Manhattan, insisted that her potential partner would need to “earn” a kiss.
Underwood’s own background adds depth to the show’s narrative. He was a virgin during his time on “The Bachelor” and later revealed he is gay after dating contestant Cassie Randolph. “Mine is a very complex story that America now knows,” he remarked, suggesting that viewers will gain insight into the various reasons individuals may choose to remain virgins into adulthood.
Many contestants identify as Mormon, reflecting how personal beliefs shape their experiences with dating and relationships. Underwood noted, “As a Christian man, it is easy to hide behind your faith… when you have other insecurities and other traumatic things that you’re trying to work through.”
The show also features moments of levity, underscoring the awkwardness present in new relationships. Bristowe and Underwood shared their amusement at some of the contestants’ less-than-stellar pickup lines. One participant, Michael, a 26-year-old stand-up comedian from Austin, Texas, humorously stated that his celebrity crush was William Howard Taft, a fact that left Underwood puzzled. “I didn’t even know who that is,” he admitted.
As the premiere date approaches, the anticipation for “Are You My First?” continues to grow. The hosts are eager to witness the unfolding dynamics among contestants and the unique stories that will emerge. With the potential for significant viewer engagement, the show promises to explore both the challenges and triumphs of navigating relationships while embracing one’s virginity.