Richard Gere, the acclaimed actor known for his roles in films like “Pretty Woman,” has revealed that the most valuable parenting advice he imparts to his children originates from his long-standing friendship with the Dalai Lama. In a recent interview with People, Gere emphasized the importance of kindness, a lesson he hopes his sons will carry throughout their lives.
Gere, who is 76 years old and a dedicated Buddhist since 1978, spoke about his desire for his children to embrace compassion. He has three sons: one with ex-wife Carey Lowell and two with his current wife, Alejandra Silva. When discussing the principles he wishes to instill, Gere recalled a poignant moment shared between the Dalai Lama and a couple he knew.
During a conversation years ago, the Dalai Lama was asked how to raise a child in a complex world. Gere recounted the spiritual leader’s response: “Teach them to be kind to insects, whom normally people don’t think well of and step on and don’t even think about it. To even respect the life of an insect, [that’s] something that carries over into all of your life.” This insight reflects the broader message of compassion that Gere believes is essential for personal development.
The actor has maintained a close friendship with the 14th Dalai Lama, Tenzin Gyatso, for many years, often citing their relationship as a significant influence in his life. Gere’s spiritual journey began in his twenties, when he began to grapple with profound questions about purpose and meaning. He explained, “It wasn’t a particular event, but I think there was just an ongoing innate questioning of what is this? Why am I here? What am I supposed to do of any value?”
In addition to his personal reflections, Gere has also contributed to the cinematic exploration of spirituality. He served as a producer for the documentary “Wisdom of Happiness,” featuring the Dalai Lama, which premiered at the Zurich Film Festival in October 2024. This project highlights the teachings of the Dalai Lama and their relevance to modern life.
Gere’s first encounter with the Dalai Lama took place in the foothills of the Himalayas, where the spiritual leader was living in exile. Reflecting on that initial meeting, Gere noted, “Even from the first time I met him, he’s completely simple and direct and honest. There’s no pretense about him whatsoever.” He likened the experience to conversing with a beloved family member or an inspiring professor.
As Gere continues to navigate his role as a father and advocate for kindness, his insights resonate with many seeking guidance on raising compassionate children in today’s world. His emphasis on kindness, derived from the teachings of the Dalai Lama, serves as a reminder of the profound impact that simple values can have on individuals and society as a whole.