Lila Harmsen, a prominent pro-life advocate known for her unwavering dedication, passed away on July 31. Her advocacy spanned decades, during which she tirelessly fought for the rights of unborn children and provided support to their parents. Harmsen’s commitment to her cause made her a significant figure in the communities of Fargo, Jamestown, and Grand Forks, where she worked to help women reconsider their decisions regarding abortion.
A Lifelong Mission Rooted in Compassion
Harmsen first learned about abortion at the age of eight, an experience that profoundly impacted her. From that moment, she dedicated her life to spreading love and compassion, hoping to spare others from the pain she witnessed. By the time of her passing, she was in her late 70s and had become a respected veteran in pro-life ministry.
Her presence was often felt at the now-closed abortion facility in Fargo, where she engaged with women facing difficult choices. Harmsen’s gentle demeanor and grandmotherly kindness attracted many who were vulnerable and scared. Her ability to connect with these individuals made her an effective advocate, reportedly helping to save dozens of lives throughout her career.
In March 2022, Harmsen reflected on her years of advocacy during a conversation with a fellow pro-life supporter. She emphasized the intrinsic value of each child, stating, “If the children slated for abortion could speak, they’d beg to live.” Her remarks highlighted the emotional and irreversible nature of abortion, as she urged individuals to consider the long-term consequences of their decisions.
Enduring Impact and a Legacy of Love
Harmsen’s compassion extended beyond individual interactions. She was actively involved in jail ministry in her hometown of Valley City, where she provided support to those in need. Her work often included guiding women to resources that could help them choose life. One memorable incident involved her jumping into a stranger’s car to direct a mother to the Women’s Care Center after she decided against her abortion appointment.
“My heart breaks when I think of the loss of these children and the pain that the mother will undoubtedly endure when she realizes her baby is gone,” Harmsen once expressed. “God created them for life, not for us to destroy them.”
Following her death, reports emerged of some abortion escorts celebrating Harmsen’s passing. However, her legacy and the impact of her work are expected to endure. Advocates in the pro-life movement continue to draw inspiration from her dedication and commitment to helping others.
In the words of St. Paul, many reflect on her life with gratitude, stating, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Harmsen’s contributions to the pro-life cause and her compassionate outreach will not be forgotten, as her influence continues to resonate within the community. As her colleagues and supporters mourn her loss, they also celebrate a life devoted to advocating for the voiceless.