PEORIA, ILLINOIS — Kimberly Souba, a local author and advocate, is on a mission to help children who have experienced abuse. Having survived her own traumatic childhood, Souba is now penning children’s books aimed at fostering healing and spreading messages of God’s love.
Growing up in LaMoille, Illinois, during the 1980s, Kimberly became part of the staggering statistic that indicates approximately 40 percent of children in the United States face sexual abuse. While her story is not unique, her journey to recovery is inspiring. Dan Wujek, a key figure in her life, describes her efforts as “courageous,” emphasizing her desire to ensure that other children understand they are loved and that there is hope.
Janean Doherty, who met Kimberly when she was a babysitter, later recognized the depth of Kimberly’s resilience during her career as a psychiatric nurse. “In the military, I witnessed a lot of messed-up situations,” she said, “yet Kimberly’s life topped them all.” Her ability to overcome adversity has become a source of motivation for many, as she uses her experiences to save others from similar fates.
A significant chapter in Kimberly’s healing began with her relationship with therapist Mary Ann Akers. Initially reluctant to share her story, Kimberly eventually found the courage to open up after six months of therapy. “It was like a light switch going on,” she recalled. They met weekly for a decade, forming a bond that lasted until Akers’ passing in May 2023. Kimberly credits Akers as one of many figures who helped guide her back from the brink of despair.
Fr. Charles Klamut, a priest from the Diocese of Peoria, also played a crucial role in Kimberly’s recovery. He noted her impressive spiritual resilience and dedication to healing. “She’s bold, she does the work, does the digging, and she’s not afraid to wrestle with God and herself,” he said. Their ongoing friendship has provided Kimberly with continued support as she navigates her journey.
Despite geographical distance, Kimberly has embraced her new life in Fargo, North Dakota, where she relocated to resume her spiritual growth and work. She previously lived in North Dakota while discerning her religious vocation with the Sisters of Mary of the Presentation. However, unresolved trauma led her to leave the convent and return to Illinois, where she struggled with anxiety and safety concerns.
As Kimberly transitioned back into teaching, she began to process her past experiences. With the help of a friend who recognized her struggles, she connected with Akers and began addressing her childhood trauma. Raised by her grandmother after her mother fell into addiction, Kimberly found solace in her faith and a vibrant Christian community during her high school years.
Her path continued to be rocky, as Kimberly faced multiple suicide attempts and periods of depression. Journaling became her outlet during these difficult times. During the COVID-19 pandemic, she discovered her old writings, which inspired her to craft her first children’s book, A Caterpillar’s Journey. This book not only reflects her life but also serves as a tool for healing.
Kimberly has since written several other books, including the upcoming Mary, Dinosaurs and the Wonders of God: A Backyard Adventure with Momma Mary, inspired by her goddaughter. This title is set to be released in time for Christmas 2023, alongside her children’s coloring book, Miriam’s Heavenly Tea Party, which features beloved saints as tea-party guests.
In addition to her writing, Kimberly is pursuing a communications degree through Valley City State University and recently took on a role as a communications specialist with the North Dakota University System. Her transition back to North Dakota has rejuvenated her faith journey, and she is actively involved in her local parish, Sts. Anne and Joachim Church.
Reflecting on her experiences, Kimberly acknowledges the profound impact of community support. Friends like Dan Wujek have witnessed her transformation and the love the Christian community has shown her. “Watching the Christian community in Illinois open their hearts to Kimberly was beautiful to witness,” he said. “She was so in need, and also so lovable, that people would do anything for her.”
Through her writing and advocacy, Kimberly Souba is determined to ensure that children facing similar challenges know they are not alone. Her story of resilience and hope continues to inspire those around her, proving that healing is possible with love, faith, and community support.