Mike Tomlin’s wife, Kiya, expressed gratitude to the Pittsburgh community following her husband’s resignation as head coach of the Pittsburgh Steelers. On January 13, 2023, Mike Tomlin stepped down after a distinguished 19-season career, during which he won a Super Bowl and maintained a winning record every year. Kiya took to her Instagram Story on January 16 to share her thoughts, stating, “As many of you are aware, my husband has stepped down from his position as head coach of the Pittsburgh Steelers. I want to take a moment to share something from my heart.”
In her heartfelt message, Kiya highlighted her pride in Mike’s accomplishments, both on and off the field. She noted the overwhelming support from current and former players, saying, “The messages and testimonies shared by current and former players — the men who knew him best — have been deeply moving.”
Mike Tomlin, at 53, has been a pivotal figure in the Steelers’ history. He took over as head coach in 2007 and led the team to a Super Bowl victory in his second season. His resignation follows increasing pressure from fans who have not seen the team win a playoff game since 2016.
Kiya, who has been by Mike’s side throughout his coaching journey, reflected on their shared history. The couple met as student-athletes at the College of William & Mary, where Mike played football and Kiya was a gymnast. Married since 1996, they have three children, all of whom excelled in collegiate sports. Their sons, Dino and Mason, played football at Boston College and Columbia University, respectively, while their daughter, Harley, competes on the gymnastics team at the University of Georgia.
“His mission began long before the titles and headlines, back when we first met in college, and it has never wavered,” Kiya stated. She emphasized that Mike’s purpose has always been to help young men develop into great individuals. “Coaching and fatherhood became the avenues through which he lived out that calling,” she added.
The emotional atmosphere surrounding Mike’s departure was palpable. An employee of the Steelers reportedly described the moment he announced his resignation as feeling like “a funeral.” Even quarterback Aaron Rodgers was seen in tears, underscoring the profound impact Mike had on his players.
While Mike has made his mark in coaching, Kiya has also built a successful career as a designer. She launched her fashion brand, the Coach T Collection, in 2025, aiming to inspire confidence both on and off the field. In her statement, she described the collection as a way to share mentorship and the life lessons that shaped so many lives.
“While I don’t yet know what our next chapter looks like, what I do know is that I am deeply grateful for the journey the Coach T Collection represented,” Kiya noted. She concluded her message by thanking the community for their support over the past 19 years, expressing a deep appreciation for their kindness and the warm reception her family has received.
As the Pittsburgh Steelers search for Mike Tomlin’s successor, the legacy he leaves behind will undoubtedly continue to influence the team and the players he mentored throughout his remarkable career.